Young and old gays
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For those who find their romantic fulfillment with someone older, Felsenthal’s message is clear: you are not alone, and your love is just as valid as any other.
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Brutal. The best writing doesn’t come from outlines alone. Don’t. It thrives in authenticity.Some older gay men won’t be your campy fairy godfathers. But flip that lens and you’ll find something richer.
It comes from encounters—awkward, beautiful, unexpected, sometimes slow.
You won’t always agree. You know, when Judy Garland played on the jukebox, and someone they loved finally said yes.
As a writer, you want depth? “No one over 40.” “Not into older.” It’s like aging is contagious. They didn’t just walk, so you could run—they marched.
Or a story where the mentor isn’t tragic, but sexy, smart, and sharp-tongued.
You don’t have to write them as saints or punchlines. Invite nuance. Let them surprise you. Yet in queer spaces, ageism still rears its Botox-smooth head. If you'd like to contribute to the costs of maintaining this site for the benefit of others, you can do so here- your support would be amazing!
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